Do you find yourself trying to please everyone? It's not only impossible, but not in the least desirable. If you give the farm away, what is left for you. Take care of yourself first -- if you don't, where will you get the energy to take care of your loved ones?
A client told me that she had to please everyone at her job. When I asked her why, she looked at me blankly. She thought that if she did enough, magically, everyone would love her.
For self-healing, I recommended mirror therapy. Can you live with what you see in the mirror? If so, if you are in your integrity, then you are on your way to a successful life.
Certainly, you have to please your boss and meet the needs of your clients -- but can you make the whole world happy? Not likely. Spend your time, effort and energy where you will get the greatest return. And be happy!
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